Are you guilty
of telling a friend one of these lies?
You’d be hard-pressed to be among a group of
ladies with nothing to say regarding your
relationship. So if one of your best friends is
gabbing more than a “Chatty Cathy” doll, avoid
these 5 lies women tell each other about men
and dating:
4. “He’s probably just busy.” When you first
started dating, he showed up regularly with
flowers and couldn’t stop whispering sweet
nothings into your ear. But now? You’re lucky
if he returns your phone calls because he’s
sooo busy. Your BFF may console you
otherwise, but bottom line is we all have the
same amount of hours in our day. Break free,
girl. There are plenty of fish in the sea who will
make time to take your bait no matter when
the tide is receding.
3. “I know exactly how you feel.” Um. No. You
don’t. Perhaps your friend has dealt with a
similar circumstance, but the only way for her
to know how you feel is to be you. Everyone’s
feelings are unique to themselves. She might
have some good advice, but in my experience
“I know exactly how you feel” is more of a
redirect to make conversation about herself
than to input any life-altering suggestions.
Proceed with caution.
2. “He’s cheating on you.” Okay, Miss
Negative Nancy, he fell asleep and forgot to
text you one night. It’s not like he called you
someone else’s name in the middle of s*x or
didn’t invite you to his birthday dinner. Just
because your friend’s ex cheated on her with a
stripper named Princess doesn’t mean all men
are scum.
1. “All men are the same.” On the contrary.
Men are like shoes; no two fit alike and you
have to try a bunch on until you find the
perfect fit. Some are uncomfortable, some
make you feel like a hooker, but one will fit so
well you think you’re walking on cloud nine.
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