For a man, nothing is séxier
than a woman who is loud in
bed and participates in a little
dirty talk. Below are five
things your man is dying to
hear you mouth off about.
Him
Men want to know that you’re not visualizing
someone else when you’re with them or just
phoning it in, so although it may seem basic,
saying (or screaming out) his name in béd is a
good way to ease into dirty talk. Punctuate it
with a few “ooohs” and moans and it will be
more than enough to get him going.
The Action
If you’re being a tad quiet, many men will take
the initiative and let you know what they’d like
to hear by peppering you with questions, such
as “What am I doing to you?” and “How does
that feel?”
In this case, simply describing the mise en
scène and how you feel will suffice. However,
don’t feel like obligated to use cuss words if
it’s not your style. Instead, take a cue from
romance novels and utilize under-used verbs
like “pulse,” “swell,” and “throb.”
Your Fantasies
Nothing counts when it’s said in between the
sheets, so if you’re feeling confident, why not
seize the opportunity and tell him all of your
craziest fantasies and dreams? If the thought
leaves you tongue-tied, try practicing in front
of a mirror – especially the particularly
naughty parts – until you are able to say them
without feeling embarrassed or laughing.
Stock Dirty Phrases
Sometimes just having séx is intimate enough,
and the idea of pouring out all of your deepest
desires, especially in a new relationship, is too
much. However, you don’t want to be mute.
For those times, any of the following stock
séxy phrases will work:
“Oh, yeah, right there!”
“That feels amazing”
“Don’t stop, harder”
“I want you so bad”
“Give it to me!”
“You animal!”
Get Creative
Men can be just as insecure as women; so
sometimes a little vocal encouragement is all
that’s needed to let them know that you are
enjoying what they’re doing. Sometimes a few
soft purrs can be just as effective as a well-
rehearsed speech, so don’t be afraid to get
creative. Whatever you do to cheer lead them
along will make your bédroom romp all the
more exciting.
than a woman who is loud in
bed and participates in a little
dirty talk. Below are five
things your man is dying to
hear you mouth off about.
Him
Men want to know that you’re not visualizing
someone else when you’re with them or just
phoning it in, so although it may seem basic,
saying (or screaming out) his name in béd is a
good way to ease into dirty talk. Punctuate it
with a few “ooohs” and moans and it will be
more than enough to get him going.
The Action
If you’re being a tad quiet, many men will take
the initiative and let you know what they’d like
to hear by peppering you with questions, such
as “What am I doing to you?” and “How does
that feel?”
In this case, simply describing the mise en
scène and how you feel will suffice. However,
don’t feel like obligated to use cuss words if
it’s not your style. Instead, take a cue from
romance novels and utilize under-used verbs
like “pulse,” “swell,” and “throb.”
Your Fantasies
Nothing counts when it’s said in between the
sheets, so if you’re feeling confident, why not
seize the opportunity and tell him all of your
craziest fantasies and dreams? If the thought
leaves you tongue-tied, try practicing in front
of a mirror – especially the particularly
naughty parts – until you are able to say them
without feeling embarrassed or laughing.
Stock Dirty Phrases
Sometimes just having séx is intimate enough,
and the idea of pouring out all of your deepest
desires, especially in a new relationship, is too
much. However, you don’t want to be mute.
For those times, any of the following stock
séxy phrases will work:
“Oh, yeah, right there!”
“That feels amazing”
“Don’t stop, harder”
“I want you so bad”
“Give it to me!”
“You animal!”
Get Creative
Men can be just as insecure as women; so
sometimes a little vocal encouragement is all
that’s needed to let them know that you are
enjoying what they’re doing. Sometimes a few
soft purrs can be just as effective as a well-
rehearsed speech, so don’t be afraid to get
creative. Whatever you do to cheer lead them
along will make your bédroom romp all the
more exciting.
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